Lessons in Love // Part 2
Love and Communication: Building Stronger Relationships Through Better Communication
Communication is the foundation of any successful relationship. Whether in marriage, dating, or engagement, how we communicate shapes the quality and depth of our connections with others.
Why is Communication So Important in Relationships?
Communication influences every aspect of relationships. It helps build intimacy, resolve conflicts, and maintain strong connections. Without intentional communication, relationships can drift apart over time, leading to what's called "marital drift."
The LUV Approach to Better Communication
1. Listen
Give your full attention when someone is speaking
Maintain eye contact to show engagement
Avoid distractions like phones or TV
Respond when spoken to, even if just to acknowledge
2. Understand
Avoid quick, reactive answers
Take time to process before responding
Allow freedom to express genuine feelings
Don't assume you know what the other person will say
3. Validate
Use encouraging and supportive language
Build up your partner's self-esteem
Show appreciation regularly
Keep private matters private
Common Communication Pitfalls to Avoid
Going to bed angry
Using the word "divorce" during arguments
Breaking confidence by sharing private matters
Taking each other for granted
Letting outside distractions interfere with quality time
Life Application
This week, challenge yourself to improve communication in your relationships by:
Scheduling dedicated time for conversation without distractions
Doing something unexpected to show appreciation
Practicing active listening when your partner speaks
Praying together if married or in a serious relationship
Ask yourself:
How often do I give my full attention when others speak?
Do I validate my partner's feelings, even when I disagree?
What specific steps can I take to improve communication this week?
Am I making time for meaningful conversation in my relationships?
Remember: The effort you put into communication directly impacts the strength of your relationships. Make it a priority to listen, understand, and validate those you love.
